There is no going back.

Editor's note: The destruction of genders and the relationship between men and women has gotten to the point now where reconciliation is almost impossible. The internet has permanently destroyed the male and female relationship because of social media. The internet has allowed the common man (the plebification of knowledge) to believe he has the ability, utility and resources to put research together and present it to the public without using bibliographies. The internet was fraudulently marketed as a tool to "educate the world" and people will have information at their fingertips. The internet did just the opposite. And people are still falling for the massive amount of garbage uploaded onto the internet. In its final outcome the internet through social media has created a gender war. The vast abyss that has developed between males and females now seems impossible to recover from. This is all by design. Make no mistake about it. The internet has permanently ruined the relationship dynamic. The internet has proven itself to be a detriment to our human condition. We have reached a birth rate deficit and there is no way to reverse this trend. As long as social media exists on the internet the vast gulf between men and women will never be healed. The internet has brought out the degenerative traits in people without restraint. Our circumstances have become irreversibly fucked up because of technology, the internet and social media.
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Women - If You Want a Man, Be Submissive

June 21, 2026

YouTube is full of videos of women complaining that men are no longer interested in forming relationships."Men are no longer obsessed with women," they complain.

The SEXLESS WOMEN EPIDEMIC Is Driving Women THIRSTY For Men's Attention & Validation:

After 35 I'm Still Nobody's Wife, Single With No Children -Kozmicverse

Andrew Tate who has an enormous following among young men says a man is insane to get married. He's right. You're giving a stranger control over you, your children and your money. Women seduce men to gain access to these things.

Makow--Women were designed to nurture husband and children and to be cherished in return. Women will not be loved without fulfilling this essential role. Sex alone is no longer incentive for a man to marry. It's too widely available. Children are our organic growth and legacy. A man should marry if he wants children, and then only to a woman who makes raising them her first priority.

Heterosexuality is based on the exchange of female worldly power for male protection & love. Most men love a woman because she sacrifices power. She trusts his leadership. Feminism has taught women to seek power instead of love, and compete with men. This has effectively neutered them. Power = penis. Men were designed to protect and provide for women and children, not compete with them.

Feminism is a Communist depopulation program aimed at undermining marriage and the family. Feminism taught men to seek a woman's approval above his own (i.e. transference, idealizing a woman instead of obeying his best Self.) This has resulted in arrested development on a massive scale. Souls trapped in the mind-body of an ape, the emptiness we feel is a craving to be reunited with God. Satanists brainwashed us to think is sexual intercourse. Thus sex became our religion.

In Cruel Hoax 2007 I warned women almost twenty years ago. None listened. They rather conform to Communist propaganda and be miserable than live happy fulfilled lives.

(Disclaimer - This template has worked for centuries. That's why the usual suspects are trying to destroy it.)

Possession is the Essence of Marriage

(Updated from Dec. 2009 and June 10, 2025)

by Henry Makow Ph.D.

My wife recently asked me why I loved her.

Rather than enumerate her good qualities, I answered honestly: "Because you are submissive."

At the risk of being politically incorrect, many men do not seek strong independent women. They do not seek great beauty, brains or sex, but the simple feeling of "possessing" a woman. In other words, what they seek is a degree of ownership or power. This is part of masculine identity.

And many women have the complementary desire, to be possessed, to totally "belong" to their husband.

In a blog post, Joseph William, in his thirties, claims he has slept with 100 women and nearly all of them wanted to be dominated in bed. They wanted the man to take charge. This has a general application. Women need men to take the initiative. They acquiesce or reject.

The essence of heterosexuality is the exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. This is the heterosexual contract. If a woman is not submissive or a man unloving, the contract has been broken, and they must consider separation.

When a woman surrenders to her husband, she gives him the power to grant her wishes, or not. He does not exploit, control or dominate. He respects her individuality and freedom.

He wants her to want to be his. He consults and nurtures. He makes the final decision.

Every family needs a head. A creature with two heads is a monster.

INTIMACY

We have a powerful hunger to become one with another person. Two people only can become one when a woman surrenders to her husband. This is how women love. Two people cannot become one if they have competing agendas.

The greater a woman's acceptance of her husband's leadership, the greater his love for her. When the issue of worldly power is settled, a husband's sense of self expands to encompass his wife. She becomes part of his ego. He knows that her child is his.

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